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Privacy Policy
Last updated: May 19, 2026
Modesty is a faith-centered dating community for single Black Christians. Your trust matters to us, and this policy explains what information we collect, how we use it, and the measures we take to keep it safe.
Information we collect
- Account details such as your name, email, date of birth, and password.
- Profile content including photos, prompts, faith background, and preferences.
- Messages and interactions with other members.
- Device and usage data (browser type, IP address, app activity).
- Payment metadata for premium subscriptions. We never store full credit card numbers. All card data is handled by our PCI-DSS Level 1 payment processor (Stripe).
How we use your information
- Match you with compatible members who share your faith.
- Keep the community safe through moderation and abuse detection.
- Send essential service emails and, with consent, devotionals or tips.
- Improve features, fix bugs, and measure performance.
- Comply with applicable laws and prevent fraud.
How we protect your information
Security is a first-class part of how we build Modesty. Your personal and financial information is protected by multiple layers of safeguards:
- All traffic is encrypted in transit using TLS.
- Data is encrypted at rest in our managed database.
- Row-level security policies ensure members can only access their own data.
- Payments are processed exclusively by Stripe (PCI-DSS Level 1). Modesty never sees, stores, or transmits raw card numbers.
- Internal access to production systems is restricted, logged, and reviewed.
- We conduct regular security reviews and act quickly on any vulnerability reports.
How we share your information
We do not sell your data. We share information only with trusted service providers (hosting, payments, email delivery) bound by contract to protect it, or when required by law.
Your rights
You can access, correct, export, or delete your data at any time by contacting support@modesty-dating.online. We honor verified requests promptly.
Cookies & tracking
We use essential cookies to keep you signed in and limited analytics cookies to understand how the service is used. You can control cookies through your browser settings.
Children
Modesty is for adults aged 18 and older. We do not knowingly collect data from anyone under 18.
Changes to this policy
We may update this policy from time to time. Material changes will be announced in-app or by email. Continued use after an update means you accept the revised policy.
Contact
Questions about your privacy? Email support@modesty-dating.online.